
Friday, March 5, 2010
FASHION SATURDAY

Thursday, March 4, 2010
Fashion for Spring...
Dress by Blumarine ~ via Harper's Bazaar 2010
Embracing Etiquette with Teresa continued... see introduction post (1-29-10.)
Handling Mistakes
It may be embarrassing to get a name wrong or totally forget a name, everyone makes mistakes, and it is not rude.
If you can’t remember a name …
Do Not Panic! At least attempt to introduce the person. The person may see that you are having a difficult time and introduce themselves. If the person is wearing a name tag, look at it. Otherwise, apologize quickly and tell them you have suddenly forgotten their name. Do the same if you can’t remember their last name. Call them by their first name, and let them know that you have forgotten or do not know their name. Then … drop it.
If you get a title wrong…
This is difficult to remember at times. Do they want to be called Mrs., Ms., Miss? Do your best on these, and they may correct you. If you are wrong on rank, they may correct you. If you are not certain, ask them later. These are not bad mistakes and are not rude. Try to remember the next time you see them.
If you mispronounce a name …
If you know that you cannot properly pronounce a name, ask the person how to pronounce it. Try not to make the same mistake again, but it is an acceptable and understood mistake. If you know that you will be introducing someone with a name you are unsure of, you should ask someone who knows.
I hope that you have enjoyed this post.
See you soon,
Teresa
xoxo

Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Love Means Nothing In Tennis...
http://www.tenniswarehouse.com/
but these clothes do. Just the beginning of tennis news. As many of you know, my heart is in tennis, although love (0) means nothing in this great game!
Embracing Etiquette with Teresa continued... see introduction post (1-29-10.)
How to Introduce Significant Others
This is a topic that is not as clear. Other than husband and wife, fiancé and fiancée, there is question on how to introduce someone in a relationship. It is best just to introduce using their name only if you feel uncomfortable. It is best to discuss your relationship later on in the evening.
Names such as “partner, live-in, or roommate” can be misleading. If over the age of thirty or older, “boyfriend, girlfriend or special friend” sounds childish.
“Significant other or domestic partner” sounds stilted or legalistic. “My good friend or my close friend” can cause problems also. It is just best to save the designation for later.
See you soon,
Teresa
xoxo
Embracing Etiquette with Teresa continued... see introduction post (1-29-10.)

Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Tennis Anyone?

While most of the spring collections are not out yet, this dress from Tail is a must-have for any serious tennis player. It has a compression bra built in. A classic look with the comfort that the player needs.
Join me in getting out there on the courts, and getting back into the swing of things!
(1-29-10.)
Standing and Shaking Hands
The greeting etiquette for standing and shaking hands (former post) applies as well to introductions. An additional point regards standing when you are introducing or being introduced.
It is better for both parties to be seated or standing, but many times, especially in a restaurant, this is not possible. If you are standing, stand back a bit so you will not be hovering over the person seated. Bending forward a little will help everyone hear the introduction is you are in a noisy place. Be observant before offering you hand to a seated person; reaching across the table may risk knocking something over. Let common sense be your guide here.
Remember, I believe that this new addition is a little more liberal than before. I like the old addition more, and I will let you know, just as I did before, when I feel that it is necessary.
I hope that you have enjoyed this post.
See you soon,
Teresa
xoxo

Monday, March 1, 2010
Ralph Lauren ~ La Plage
and fabric...
and accessories...
Picnic anyone?
http://www.ralphlaurenhome.com/
This is the easiest type of introduction. The only name you need to remember is your own. This is not the time to be shy. In all situations, self- introduction is fairly casual. . (“Hello, my name is Alex.”) The other person should respond “I am Lew. “It is nice to meet you Miss Williams.”
Someone may blurt out “What’s your name?” while forgetting to state his own. State your name before asking that person’s name.
When introducing yourself to a group of people, wait until there is a pause in their conversation. A hello and your name may be enough, but if you prefer to ask a question, introduce yourself and then ask the question. “Hello, I am Teresa. This is my first visit to your club, and I was wondering about tonight’s agenda.”)
At large events, you will NEED to introduce yourself if there is no one there to introduce you.
I hope that you have enjoyed these posts from the Ralph Lauren Spring 2010 Collection.
See you soon,
Teresa
xoxo

Sunday, February 28, 2010
Ralph Lauren ~ Le Grand Hotel
The Spring 2010 Collection by Ralph Lauren is as beautiful as we have come to expect from this design giant. Classic and genius are words that present themselves into my mind when I open a magazine or email with his work displayed. This bedroom is no exception, and neither is the rest of the perfection in this collection, which I will show you in two posts, beginning with this one.
Rich textures, color, and wood are present in everything designed by Ralph Lauren.
Beautiful fabrics...
and beautifully finished wood.
Lavish whites...
wood...
and luxurious materials.
Accessories...
games...
and personal goods.
Beautiful dining furnishings...
accessories...
and to finish it all... a lovely bar.
www.ralphlaurenhome.com
Embracing Etiquette with Teresa continued... see introduction post (1-29-10.)
The Order of Introductions
Who to introduce to whom is a subject we worry about needlessly. The person being introduced first is shown deference, based on seniority or prominence. The order in which a person is introduced is important, but if a mistake is made offence is not usually taken.
The four guidelines follow:
Younger person is introduced to an older person. (“Mrs. Quinn, I want to introduce you to my daughter, Angela Duke. Angela, this is aunt, Mrs. Quinn”.)
A person of high rank or prominence is named first and received the introduction. (“Princess Angela, may I present my husband C. J. ? ”) Always try to introduce your boss first when introducing them to a lower rank person. (Mr. Gunter, I would like for you to meet Ashley Griswold, who will begin work with us on Monday. Ashley, this is Mr. Gunter, president of our company.”)
When introducing others to family members, the other person’s name is said first. (“Alex, I would like for you to meet my cousin, Erin.”). But as a sign of respect, an older person is named first. (“Mother, I would like to introduce Lauren Williams. Lauren, this is my mother, Mrs. Teresa.”)
In social situations, men are introduced to women. (“Mrs. Jones, I would like to introduce Mr. Smith.”)
Tomorrow we will talk about self-introductions.
I hope that you have enjoyed this post as much as I enjoyed designing it. Ralph Lauren gave me everything I needed to present it well.
See you soon,
Teresa
xoxo

Friday, February 26, 2010
Fabulous Fashion ~ The New York Collections
Actress/Model Natasa Vojnovic with members of The American Ballet Theatre. February Issue Elle Magazine. Dress by Tommy Hilfiger
My favorite dress. Carolina Herrera.
Dress by Michael Kors.
Dress by Oscar de la Renta.
This beautiful tailored suit by Ralph Lauren. I love this suit.
I hope that you have enjoyed this selection from New York Collections. Great combination -- fashion and culture.
NOTE: You can buy your herbs now. I am going to purchase rosemary, basil, sage, thyme, dill, mint, oregano. I am going to grow lettuce, but not in the box I built. You will need a good potting soil (I use Miracle Gro.) Put gravel, if you will be using, and pour in soil and them plant the herbs. Water. Be sure you keep them moist, but not soaked.
Embracing Etiquette with Teresa continued... see introduction post (1-29-10.)
Five Introduction Goofs
Looking away. If you are looking around or talking while an introduction is being made, you are showing that you are not interested.
Making too-personal comments. Conversations about divorce, illnesses, job situations, death, etc. are not acceptable during an introduction.
Interrupting. When people are obviously involved in a conversation, do not interrupt them in order to talk or make introduction.
Deferring to one person at the expense of the other. Include all parties in a conversation after an introduction.
Gushing. Do not be too enthusiastic with introductions. It may make others uncomfortable. No match making here.
See you Monday,
Teresa
xoxo
